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Friday, June 06, 2008
Till everything burns...>
I've discovered something about myself recently. I love to be the centre of attraction!!! Haha... In a good way of course.
We had netball again yesterday. Xin hui couldn't make it because she fall down and her wound are still open. Irene and Sylvia cant make it due to work. Kak Ros and Kak laila cant make it because Kak Ros got exams today. Fortunately, three new people from CMA joining us yesterday.
We did a few warm up. Followed by some practice - learning how to dodge. It's quite fun! One person try to defend. The other person try to dodge and run to the front to catch the ball from the coach. After that, we were splitted into 2 teams.
Winnie and I are in one team. I was selected by my coach to be center. I totally gave her the "You must be joking" look and then just said okay. Anyway, a lot of people commented that I played centre very well last night. Hmmm... I dont think so larh guys. First reason, there was no one guarding me. The other team's centre is Hasila. Hasila run around one side, and i run around the other side. So, no pressure. Second reason, the rest of the team members are quite good too. Third reason, could be that i'm venting out my anger after my difficult MA paper. Anyway, i felt really really good just to be able to run around the court. Haha....
At the end of the day, as usual, nobody gives a fuck which team scores better. We all simply went home happily after a good game. I already plan what I wanna do after my exams. I got tons of appointment fixed already. Gosh... I feel so popular. Hehehz... Prasan!
Let's see..
Tues: Meeting up with Shahidah after audit exam
Wed: Facial appointment at 12pm. Collect "Remember Me" from Tampines Library after that. Followed by new tuition assignment in Tampines. Nice timing huh? Only take up more tuition after my exams. Hehez....
Thurs: Meet up with Faizah at 12pm. Then meet up with Winnie and Woanling for old times sake since Woanling is really really not into ball games at all. In the evening, Winnie and me would make our way to Netball again.
Cool isn't it? This way, i doubt i'll be complaining that my life is standing to a still. Coz i'll be starting my internship the following monday. Recently, CMA is recruiting ppl to expand the office. I so wanna apply for the position of Finance Executive. But dont know if i can get it coz i'm a little short of experience although i do have a degree. And i'm not sure if they are willing to pay me at least $2000 for the job. Coz i'm not accepting the job for anything below than that. I doubt i can get any job more than $2300 outside anyway at the moment coz i'm a fresh graduate. Haven't even receive my certificate. Most job that offers $3000 are for graduates with experience. And i can only start work earliest by 25 August which is after my internship. So haiz... Just send in my resume just now. The rest, just tawakal i guess. Okie... I better get back to my studying now.
There is something from Shankeri's post which i would to borrow from. I think it is a good advice given by Oprah.
HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be friends'.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think 'it will get better'.You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not.The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.Never let a man know everything.He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Dr Phil : Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful.You should know that:You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing.
If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one.They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts....
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
